I remember going to counseling with my wife. It was our pastor who did the counseling in an Independent Baptist Church we attended. by Michael Paul Clough

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I remember going to counseling with my wife. It was our pastor who did the counseling in an Independent Baptist Church we attended.

The first advice was for my wife not to tell me what to do even if I was driving not to say you have to turn here. No advice for me, let me make my own mistakes.

Next was for me to say a compliment to my wife every day and also ask her did I say anything that upset her today. To Keep focused on her feelings. Yes, it was good advice and helped.

But now I know the man has to be the leader down the path to a peaceful relationship. How? With you controlling your responses to her with a gentle understanding attitude and not get irritated. It’s Satan that’s the barrier standing between you and your wife.

Demons of hate, bitterness, resentment, unforgiveness, irritability, and anger that are feeding off your emotions and responses to her. They are surrounding her and she needs help through you and the power of Christ that resides in you to answer appropriately in love. Not to anger out in frustration.

You have to ask the Lord at the start of each day to guide you through it. Remember your asking and keep focused on what is really taking place. Just keep focused and remember and apply these fundamentals through Faith. The dark forces will eventually leave and flee realizing that they have been exposed. You’ll find a new inner peace come over you and your love for your wife will begin to grow deeper. It will set you free.