My best advice to young wives is to NOT control their husbands at all.

Facebook May be an image of 2 people and text that says ‘The Transformed Wife W @godlywomanhood My best advice to young wives is to NOT control their husbands at all. He married a wife, a helper, not a mother or nag. We’re warned that our desire will be to control them but we must NOT. It will tear down your marriage. Learn to accept him as he is. Let God do the changing.’

Bill TaylorMrs. Lemuel’s Lessons in LeadershipMrs. Lemuel taught her son how to run the kingdom in the first 9 verses of Proverbs 31.1) Don’t mess with women; it’s one of the mistakes that destroy kings. Getting involved with Bathsheba didn’t do David’s rule any good.2) Avoid mind-altering substances.3) Take care of your people when they’re hurting, which shows that you genuinely care about them.4) Work hard to treat everybody fairly, which includes telling them the truth.She didn’t have to instruct him about “the vision thing;” every king’s vision is to keep power long enough to die peacefully in bed. Except for vision, nearly every management principle can be traced back to Mrs. Lemuel’s rules.She then spent 22 verses teaching her son how to nourish and cherish his future wife. Is being a husband more complicated than managing a kingdom?Having sent His Son to die to make it possible for us to have the Fruit of the Spirit to bring us joy in this life, God also inspired men to write instructions for marriage in His Word. This document summarizes Wedding Wisdom. It’s meant to be given to engaged couples or to a couple who’s thinking of getting engaged to help them avoid age-old mistakes.https://successful-marriage.blogspot.com/…/wedding…WeddingWisdom.doc is available from a shared folder:https://drive.google.com/…/1JQV9oEZwRL…It’s also available from Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Bill-and-Roberta-Taylor/e/B09DTMSHT8/We set the price as low as Amazon would permit – 99 cents on Kindle. I’ll donate copies to churches who will use them.

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