“The man knows that everything about his wife that irritates him is from God to bless him. His wife knows that everything about him that drives her crazy is from God to bless her. It may take years of asking God for wisdom to figure out how they’re blessed, but the way God made men and women blesses both.”READ AND FIND OUT NOW!!!
| “The man knows that everything about his wife that irritates him is from God to bless him. His wife knows that everything about him that drives her crazy is from God to bless her. It may take years of asking God for wisdom to figure out how they’re blessed, but the way God made men and women blesses both.”READ AND FIND OUT NOW!!! MARRIAGE HANDOUT: FOUNDATION OF JOYFUL HOLY MATRIMONY The Bible makes it extremely clear what drives men to marry. Jacob loved Rachel the moment he saw her (Ge. 29:19) and worked for Laban for 7 years to earn the right to take her to wife: – Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com) STOP BEING A WIFE TO YOUR BOYFRIEND: – DIVORCED CHRISTIANS BECOMING PASTORS. – CHRISTIANS AND DIVORCE…CHANGING MARRIAGES ONE AT A TIME…CHANGING LIVES ONE AT A TIME…Marriage God’s Way – MARRIAGE UNDER THREAT What Women Need from their Husbands Read Study Learn Teach Mentor Train for Christwww.RogerFulk.com – www.AWarningMinistry.com –www.BaptistChurchHistory.com Roger Fulk’s Portfolio (authory.com)CHANGING MARRIAGES ONE AT A TIME…CHANGING LIVES ONE AT FAMILY 1000 … INDEX… LATEST UPDATE: -Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com)CHAPTER 13 – MARRIAGE HANDOUT Marriage Under Threat: Hear the Voice of the Bridegroom Concerning Holy Matrimony (successful-marriage.blogspot.com) The foundation of joyful Holy Matrimony is both parties being convinced in their bones that God is good.Oh that men would praise the LORD for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men! Psalm 107:8, 15, 21, 31The man knows that everything about his wife that irritates him is from God to bless him. His wife knows that everything about him that drives her crazy is from God to bless her. It may take years of asking God for wisdom to figure out how they’re blessed, but the way God made men and women blesses both.Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. Proverbs 18:22And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me. Matthew 25:40 BEING MARRIEDAnd Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death. Genesis 24:671. Isaac supplied the tent. A man’s proposal to a woman that doesn’t include food, clothing, and shelter isn’t biblical. If a man can’t pay for her, all he can do is play with her. That never ends well.2. She became his wife, not his girlfriend – they both made public marriage vows before he took her.3. Isaac loved Rebekah and then he was comforted. God gave every wife the ability to comfort her husband, but comforting a man is emotionally exhausting. Being convinced that he loves her renews her emotional energy so she can keep comforting him. This requires a lot of daily detailed praise and appreciation by both husband and wife as taught in the Song of Solomon (Song 1:2[527]).ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDEBecause thou servedst not the LORD thy God with joyfulness, and with gladness of heart, for the abundance of all things; 48Therefore shalt thou serve thine enemies which the LORD shall send against thee, in hunger, and in thirst, and in nakedness, and in want of all things: and he shall put a yoke of iron upon thy neck, until he have destroyed thee. Deuteronomy 28:47-48A man limits his wife’s ability to make him happy if he limits his appreciation of everything about her.GETTING MARRIEDAnd Jacob said unto Laban, Give me my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I may go in unto her. Genesis 29:21Then said she, Sit still, my daughter, until thou know how the matter will fall: for the man will not be in rest, until he have finished the thing this day. Ruth 3:18 The best advice on getting married there is.Boaz wasn’t thinking of marriage, but when Ruth suggested it, it was such a good idea he ran out the very next morning and married her. Why? Because he wanted her. If a woman gives a man rest outside marriage, her value falls (Pr. 31:10[528]). What would marriage give that he doesn’t have? Why take on responsibility?DWELLING ACCORDING TO KNOWLEDGELikewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. I Peter 3:7This means knowing her needs, preferences, thoughts, and feelings and think about her when making decisions. If a woman prefers vanilla and her husband always brings home chocolate, does he love her? Will she feel loved? The only way a man can get this knowledge is though hours and days of open-hearted conversation. There’s a reward – the better your wife knows you, the more easily she can please you.STAYING MARRIEDI would lead thee, and bring thee into my mother’s house, who would instruct me: I would cause thee to drink of spiced wine of the juice of my pomegranate. 3His left hand should be under my head, and his right hand should embrace me. Song of Solomon 8:2-3Her mother tells her to welcome him into her body whenever he wants her. Giving herself when she’d rather not is what submission means. She has more sexual capacity than he; she can drain off all of his energy to keep him focused. If she sends him off to work loaded, he may be tempted by other women (Pr. 6:28[529]).HUSBAND LEADS BY SERVINGAnd he sat down, and called the twelve, and saith unto them, If any man desire to be first, the same shall be last of all, and servant of all. Mark 9:35But Jesus called them to him, and saith unto them, Ye know that they which are accounted to rule over the Gentiles exercise lordship over them; and their great ones exercise authority upon them. 43But so shall it not be among you: but whosoever will be great among you, shall be your minister: 44And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all. 45For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many. Mark 10:42-45HUSBAND LEADS IN APPRECIATIONHer children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. [saying] 29Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Proverbs 31:28-29Mrs. Lemuel taught her son to praise his wife and teach his children to follow his example of praising and appreciating her. This teaches the “attitude of gratitude” which blesses them all their lives. Praise is partly to encourage his wife and partly to teach her children to respect her. If her daughters respect her, she can teach them how to be treasures for their future husbands instead of being toys. If her sons respect her, she can teach them how to be blessed by their future wives as Mrs. Lemuel taught her son in Pr. 31.Nowhere in the Bible does a man criticize his wife. Not once. Really? What about this?Then said his wife unto him, Dost thou still retain thine integrity? curse God, and die. But he said unto her, Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. Job 2:9Job’s wife lost seven sons who were her hope of being fed after her husband died – no pensions. Her husband lost his money and spoke of dying. He said she spoke “like a foolish woman.” That implied she wasn’t usually foolish, it was halfway a compliment. He criticized what she did; he didn’t criticize her.A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones. Proverbs 17:22A husband’s criticism dries his wife’s bones and can shorten her life. Praise helps her live longer.GOD SPEAKS TO WOMENWhen he was set down on the judgment seat, his wife sent unto him, saying, Have thou nothing to do with that just man: for I have suffered many things this day in a dream because of him. Matthew 27:19Pilate’s wife expected him to value her dream. He should have let the help meet God gave help him.WIFE RESPECTS HER HUSBAND AND GUIDES HIS HOUSEWives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. Ephesians 5:22, 33Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Colossians 3:18I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. I Timothy 5:14Women are driven to talk about caring for husbands, children, and homes. That’s a good thing. CHAPTER 14 – HANDLING DISPUTES AND ANGER AT HOME, AT CHURCH, AT WORK, AND IN THE WORLDIn the Internet Age, everything has to be short. Salvation is two words, sexuality is 3 words, getting married is 3 words, staying married is 2 words, etc. You’ll be surprised how simple marriage is. Check out Sound Bite Marriage! About the authors Bill and Roberta Taylor By the time my wife and I were married in 1971, most of our friends were already divorced. We soon realized that God had given us something precious in our marriage.We spent the next 50 years trying to explain what God had in mind so others could enjoy the blessing God intended for every marriage. That’s what these books are about.While growing up in Japan, I watched the Japanese use Confucian virtue to build from the wreckage of WW II to an economic colossus. My parents had no car. I was hit by cars 3 times my freshman year because cars move faster than bicycles.The automobile judges between the quick and the dead. I wasn’t quick; I nearly got dead.My brothers had a 220-day school year and got a telephone-book of homework every summer “vacation.” If you asked any grade-schooler the BIG problem facing Japan, you’d hear, “Exports!”They got soft when the crisis abated. My son taught English in Japan just as government employees abandoned their service ethic and Japan slid into the “lost decades.”Give Your Boyfriend who hesitates to Marry You the Ultimatum. Especially if You have been together for awhile. – Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com)Divorced Christians Becoming Pastors. – Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com)Christians and Divorce – What God Says? Divorce – Permitted or Prescribed? – Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com)The Rarity and Value of a Woman (CLICK HERE) This article lists other things older women should teach younger women about men: Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. Proverbs 31:10 A woman came into a store wearing clothes that showed her body too well. The shop owner took a good look at her, asked her to sit down, stared at her in the eye and told them something she’ll never forget in life. ′′Miss, everything God has made valuable in this world is well covered and it’s hard to see, find, or get. For example: 1. Where can you find the diamondsAt the bottom of the earth, covered and protected. 2. Where are the pearls found?At the ocean floor, covered and protected in a beautiful shell. 3. Where can you find gold?Down the ground, covered in layers of rock and to get it you have to work hard and dig deep. Having said that, he stared at her again and said: ′′ Your body is sacred and unique “. You are much more precious than gold, diamonds and pearls, so you must be covered too “And I add: ′′ If you keep your precious minerals like gold, diamonds and pearls deeply covered, a renowned mining organization with the necessary machinery will work years of extensive exploration. First they will contact your government (family), sign professional contracts (marriage) and extract it professionally (conjugal life). But if you let your precious minerals lie on the surface of the earth, you will always attract a large number of illegal miners to come, explore and illegally take those riches. Dress Up Pretty, But Decent! You can dress to be chased or you can dress to stay chaste. Only one honors God. Only one honors yourself, and only one will attract an honorable man. This article lists other things older women should teach youngerwomen about men: HOW TO BE A GOOD WIFE – Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com)Although the Bible commands older women to teach younger women about men, fathers can also teach their daughters important information to prepare them to be God’s good and perfect gifts to their husbands. (CLICK HERE TO READ) WHAT FATHERS SHOULD TEACH THEIR DAUGHTERS! Sound Bite Marriage: Getting married in 3 words, staying married in 2 words:Message from this Blog publisher… “I just read this little 34-page book and was amazed at the wisdom, truth, and much-needed teaching it contains. I highly recommend it.”Roger E. Fulk, Sr.www.RogerFulk.com www.Authory.com/RogerFulk (CLICK HERE TO READ) WHAT FATHERS SHOULD TEACH THEIR DAUGHTERS! Sound Bite Marriage:Getting married in 3 words,staying married in 2 words Paperback – November 11, 2023,by Bill and Roberta Taylor (Author) In the Internet Age, everything has to be short. Salvation is two words, sexuality is 3 words, getting married is 3 words, staying married is 2 words, etc. You’ll be surprised how simple marriage is.Check out Sound Bite Marriage! Amazon.com: Sound Bite Marriage: Getting married in 3 words,staying married in 2 words:Taylor, Bill and Roberta: BooksAbout the authorsBill and Roberta TaylorBy the time my wife and I were married in 1971, most of our friends were already divorced. We soon realized that God had given us something precious in our marriage. We spent the next 50 years trying to explain what God had in mind so others could enjoy the blessing God intended for every marriage. That’s what these books are about. Amazon.com: Bill and Roberta Taylor: books, biography, latest update(CLICK HERE TO READ) WHAT FATHERS SHOULD TEACH THEIR DAUGHTERS!AFTER THOUGHTS: John Whitten – “God designed men to protect, provide, and preside. He designed women to help, heal, and hold their families. So, why would a man be attracted to a woman who doesn’t embrace her role and won’t let him fulfill his role?” Only True Godly Women Will Love This Post – The Transformed Wife FAMILY 1000 … INDEX… LATEST UPDATE: -Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com)Marriage Under Threat: Two Page Explanation of Why We Use the King James Bible (KJB) (successful-marriage.blogspot.com)Bill Taylor This is a 2-page explanation why we use the King James Bibleinstead of one of the “modern” versions:https://successful-marriage.blogspot.com/…/two-page…This is the heart of the question of whether to use theKing James Bible or a more “modern” version:https://successful-marriage.blogspot.com/…/why-we-use…It summarizes the issue briefly and has links to examples and deeper explanations.Hear the Voice of the Bridegroom: Concerning Holy Matrimony Paperback – October 1, 2023by Bill and Roberta Taylor (Authors) Pastors Teaching God-Ordained Holy Matrimony Christians must be taught how to bring about God-honoring marriages that give both parties a taste of the joys of Heaven as God intended. Marriage is simple – the Bible describes marriage in one verse. You can explain both marriage and salvation in one minute. You can show how a joyful marriage operates in two words. God-honoring marriage brings men and women joy in this life (Gal. 5:22-23, Eph. 5:9), shows lost people the blessings of following He commands (Du. 4:6-8, Du. 30:9-10, 16), and helps His servants raise children to serve Him (Mal. 2:15).Christians show Christ to unbelievers (2 Cor. 5:20). Romans 7:4 uses the word “married” to describe the permanent tie between a born-again Christian and Christ. Holy Matrimony is powerful testimony. Christian husbands nourishing and cherishing their wives shows the lost how Christ blesses His people. Christian wives honoring and obeying their husbands show how Christians follow Christ. Christian divorce damages the picture of Christ’s care for us. When lost people see that we can’t handle this life any better than they, why should they care what we say about the life to come? Hear the Voice of the Bridegroom John the Baptist’s message was like a pastor’s message to a church. John could have been jealous heard that Jesus’ disciples were baptizing and that “all men come to him (Jn. 3:26),” but he humbly explained his God-given role: Ye yourselves bear me witness, that I said, I am not the Christ, but that I am sent before him. He that hath the bride is the bridegroom: but the friend of the bridegroom, which standeth and heareth him, rejoiceth greatly because of the bridegroom’s voice: this my joy therefore is fulfilled. He must increase, but I must decrease. John 3:28-30 God sent John before Christ. The church is the bride and Jesus is the bridegroom in the “marriage supper of the Lamb (2 Cor. 11:2, Rev. 19:9).” John couldn’t preach our Gospel of Jesus’ death, burial, and resurrection because it hadn’t happened yet; his Gospel of Repentance proclaimed the Messiah. If Jews had accepted Christ as Messiah, they’d have been married to Him as Christians are today (Rom. 7:4). As the friend of the Bridegroom, John heard “the bridegroom’s voice (Jn. 3:29)” which filled him with joy. As Abraham and Moses were friends of God (Ex. 33:11, 2 Chr. 20:7, Is. 41:8), pastors are called by God to be friends of the Bridegroom. As Christ’s friend, you rejoice as Christ speaks to you and to your people through your messages, Bible reading, and prayer. Christ must increase in us as we crucify the flesh in our lives (Eph. 4:22, Col. 3:9). Growth in Christ from hearing the Bridegroom continues the “good work” that begins when we accept the Lord Jesus Christ as Savior and continues “until the day of Jesus Christ (Phil. 1:6).” This is how we “Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you (Jam. 4:8).” We make the first move in asking Him to increase so that we can decrease. Increasing Him helps us enjoy the Fruit of the Spirit: But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. Galatians 5:22-24 Christ increases in us as we crucify the flesh. All our relationships: marriage, church, and work, improve as we grow in love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, and temperance. Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 Hear the Voice of the Bridegroom: Concerning Holy Matrimony:Taylor, Bill and Roberta: 9798863012292: Amazon.com: BooksGOD Says: Christian Woman, Stop Acting Like Other WomenScolding, lecturing, being angry, and critical are going to change our husbands…?What Women Need from their Husbands Read Study Learn Teach Mentor Train for Christwww.RogerFulk.com – www.AWarningMinistry.com –www.BaptistChurchHistory.com Roger Fulk’s Portfolio (authory.com)CHANGING MARRIAGES ONE AT A TIME…CHANGING LIVES ONE AT A TIME…Marriage God’s Way – MARRIAGE UNDER THREATChildren Learn From Fathers –Ephesians 6:4 “Children Learn From Fathers”“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.”Ephesians 6:4 According to Dr. T.B. Brazelton, a leading pediatrician, a father that is active in the family will produce smarter andhappier children. He reports that an active dad, at home willcause his children to be more successful at school, have abetter sense of humor, be more motivated and will have ahigher IQ by the age of seven. Another outstanding Christianeducator stated that Western Civilization stands at thecrossroads of survival and the deciding factor will be thepresence or absence of masculine leadership in homes.Consider the following:In Ephesians 6:4, the father should love God and lead byexample and not just words.In I Timothy 5:8 and II Thessalonians 3:10, the fathershould work and teach his children to work. He does not leavemom to do all the work and perhaps if one doesn’t work, heshould not eat!In Proverbs 3:12, the father will discipline in love, mercyand grace. Children should learn the character of God bywatching their earthly father.In Ephesians 5:25, boys learn the proper way to treatwomen and what a marriage should be, by watching dad showhis love for mom.In Matthew 6:9, children learn to pray by hearing theirearthly father pray.In short, fathers have the most powerful influence overtheir children’s lives for good or otherwise. How Are YouDoing, Dad? -C.S.Prepared by Roger Fulk, from the “Baptist Bread” August 25, 2023 devotional by author CHRIS STAUB, Pastor, Silvery Lane Baptist Church, Dearborn Hts. MI. With permission from Tim Green, editor The Baptist Bread Children Learn From Fathers – Ephesians 6:4 – Earnestly Contend For The Faith Jude 3 (awarningministry.com)GOD Says:Christian Woman,Stop Acting Like Other WomenChristian women are very susceptible to beinggoverned and influenced by feelings or emotions.The tantalizing influences of the deceitfulness of the heart in general has made it… A MUST READ Related Article: Women Dressing (collegeoftheopenbible.com) Christian Women (collegeoftheopenbible.com) Marriage Under Threat:What Women Need from their HusbandsMarriage Under Threat (successful-marriage.blogspot.com) Marriage Under Threat: Marriage Seminar for Pastors (successful-marriage.blogspot.com)Wolf Watch Ministry False Teaching Exposed Based on the Authorized KJB – Group Rules! 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