MESSAGES TO HELP TEACH EFFECTIVE MARRIAGE

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Bill Taylor This Man-Woman Thing is Incredibly SimpleThe problem is that older women aren’t telling younger women what drives a man to marry:And Jacob said unto Laban, Give me my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I may go in unto her. Genesis 29:21The book of Ruth has Naomi’s advice on how to behave so that Boaz wanted to marry her. The key is:Then said she, Sit still, my daughter, until thou know how the matter will fall: for the man will not be in rest, until he have finished the thing this day. Ruth 3:18If a man can have her without marrying her because she gives him rest out of season, what would marriage give him that he doesn’t already have?I would lead thee, and bring thee into my mother’s house, who would instruct me: I would cause thee to drink of spiced wine of the juice of my pomegranate. 3His left hand should be under my head, and his right hand should embrace me. Song of Solomon 8:2-3The wife in the Song asked her mother for advice. Mom pointed out that she has a juicy item that interests her husband. She has more capacity than he; she can drain off all his sexual energy. That makes it hard for other women to get his attention. If she sends him off to work loaded, on the other hand, he’ll be tempted by other women. The relationship starts with the wife telling her husband to get physical with her: Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine. Song of Solomon 1:2 Right after dinner, she can tell her husband, “Take me to bed. I want you!” Men usually fall asleep, so she says, “That was wonderful, I like being yours, let’s do that again as soon as you can” and keeps him awake talking to her until he can repeat. She then says, “We could do that more often if you were in better shape. Let’s exercise together.” Exercising together gives him ideas. Exercise will help him live longer and shorten her time of widowhood. Men and women yearn for communication but do it differently. Women communicate heart to heart; men belly to belly.

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