Study to be Quiet
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Study to Be Quiet – The Transformed Wife
Study to Be Quiet
October 5, 2023 Lori Alexander
“And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you” (1 Thessalonians 4:11).
We live in such a loud culture that encourages us to be loud. Feminism is loud women demanding to be heard and demanding their rights. The harlot in Proverbs is described as being loud and her feet not abiding in her home. It’s difficult not to get caught up in all of the loudness. Social media is loud. Everyone is promoting their own opinions and ideas with a lot of clashing between the two sides. Yes, I am on social media teaching women biblical womanhood but even so, I must study to be quiet in the midst of the loudness.
What do the commentaries of old have to say about this? I love learning from them.
It is very desirable to have a calm and quiet temper, and to be of a peaceable and quiet behaviour. Satan is busy to trouble us; and we have in our hearts what disposes us to be unquiet; therefore let us study to be quiet. Those who are busy-bodies, meddling in other men’s matters, have little quiet in their own minds, and cause great disturbances among their neighbours. They seldom mind the other exhortation, to be diligent in their own calling, to work with their own hands. (Matthew Henry’s Commentary)
And that ye study to be quiet – Orderly, peaceful; living in the practice of the calm virtues of life. The duty to which he would exhort them was that of being subordinate to the laws; of avoiding all tumult and disorder; of calmly pursuing their regular avocations, and of keeping themselves from all the assemblages of the idle, the restless, and the dissatisfied. No Christian should be engaged in a mob; none should be identified with the popular excitements which lead to disorder and to the disregard of the laws. (Barnes’ Commentary)
And that ye study to be quiet: he exhorts to quietness, and yet to be diligent; and probably he might see this needful, either by what he himself had observed amongst them, or by what he had heard of them, as appears by what he writes in his Second Epistle, 2 Thessalonians 3:10,11. To be quiet is to be of a peaceable temper and carriage, as the Greek word hsucazein importeth both; and stands contrary to strife, contention, division, either upon a civil or religious account. (Matthew Poole’s Commentary)
And that ye study to be quiet,…. To live peaceably in their own families, and to give no disturbance to other families, by talebearing, whispering, and backbiting; to behave with quietness in the neighbourhood, town, or city, they dwell in, and to seek the peace thereof; and to lead a quiet and peaceable life, in all godliness and honesty, in the commonwealth, and under the government to which they belong; and not to create and encourage factions, divisions, animosities, and contentions, in their own church, or in any of the churches of Christ; and it becomes saints to make this their study, to be very solicitous for it, to strive for it, and pursue after it: the word used signifies to be ambitious of it, as what is a man’s glory and honour, to emulate and strive to outdo each other, as who shall have the honour of being the quietest person, and the most peaceable member in the community. (Gill’s Exposition)
And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will.
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2 Timothy 2:24 – 2:26
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2 Timothy Chapter 2
24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,
6h · Mary in “It’s a Wonderful Life” is a perfect example of a godly, submissive wife. When she and George first became attracted to each other, although she liked him when they were children, she never pursued him. She was kind, feminine, and sweet to him. He finally realized that he did love her and want to marry her, but it took some time as he set aside his lofty dreams for a wife and children instead.Once they were married and off to a wonderfully planned honeymoon, the stock market crashed and her newly wed husband had to get out of the car immediately and take care of business at his bank. Instead of being angry and bitter towards him, she snuck off to this old, run-down house and made a nice honeymoon suite for the two of them.They bought that old, falling apart home and she never complained. She made it a place of peace, order, and comfort for George and the children. When he came home angry because Harry Potter manipulated him into bankruptcy and threated jail time, he took it out on the family and she comforted her children and never said anything bad about their father. She only built him up. She was a peacemaker, not a quarrelsome and contentious wife. She pours love and grace upon him instead, as we should do with our husbands.He became depressed and suicidal, so he left the home in agony. While he was gone seeing what life in his town would be like without him, Mary went around to all of her neighbors and friends and when George returned, the entire town had shown up to help George out by pouring money and love upon him. She was truly a godly help meet to him who only did him good. They sure don’t make movies like this anymore.Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.Proverbs 31:10-12 (4) Facebook
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