SINGLE CHRISTIAN LADIES and MARRIED CHRISTIAN WOMEN

John Whitten

8 hrs ·

SINGLE CHRISTIAN LADIES, if you desire to marry, plan on being the wife that embraces the leadership of her husband, not resisting it. Commit yourself to supporting him, following him as he follows the Lord, leaving the discernment of what is right or wrong, to him and the Lord. Abandon your own personal career agenda for that of your husband as well as embracing the God designed role of wife and mother.

If you are inclined to argue about this with the “what if” examples, you demonstrate that your heart is not right in the matter and you shouldn’t marry until it is right with God. Otherwise you will just ruin a good man and you will both be miserable. The only possible exceptions are a few issues in the 10 commandments and physical abuse where you fear for your life. Even then, the solution is separation for safety, not divorce and not taking over.

These paragraphs are not my personal invention, but these are basic teachings found throughout the Bible. I know it is not popular, but then truly serving God has never really been popular.

MARRIED CHRISTIAN WOMEN, move quickly to conform to the above standards, waste no more time in becoming a woman after God’s own heart. Perhaps you may still reverse the damage that many of you have done to your man.