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The Transformed Wife<\/strong><\/a> – Chapter Seven – Wisdom While There is Yet Hope<\/a> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

1h<\/strong><\/a>  \u00b7 \u201cWhen I thought that keeping his faults before him – just small things he did and said – and keeping myself a little standoffish in my approval of him, was the only way he would change, I wish someone would have taken me aside and told me how badly mistaken I was to think that it was my place to apply and keep the pressure on.\u201d\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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