{"id":8566,"date":"2021-09-28T13:16:42","date_gmt":"2021-09-28T17:16:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/awarningministry.com\/?p=8566"},"modified":"2021-09-28T13:16:44","modified_gmt":"2021-09-28T17:16:44","slug":"feelings-of-love-in-a-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/awarningministry.com\/index.php\/2021\/09\/28\/feelings-of-love-in-a-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"FEELINGS OF LOVE IN A MARRIAGE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">FEELINGS OF LOVE IN A MARRIAGE<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thetransformedwife.com\/feelings-of-love-in-a-marriage\/\">September 28, 2021&nbsp;<\/a>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thetransformedwife.com\/author\/laalex2\/\">Lori Alexander<\/a><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/thetransformedwife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/clipboard-23-678x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19331\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Throughout my many years of mentoring women, I have never once mentored a woman in a difficult marriage to manufacture feelings of love towards her husband. In fact, I have never taught that feelings have anything to do with love. When I teach women to love their husbands, as I am commanded in Titus 2:4, I teach them to begin submitting to their husbands, learning what pleases them, serving them, being kind towards them, kicking critical thoughts about their husbands out of their minds and replacing them with good thoughts, not depriving them sexually, helping them any way they can, winning them without a word by their godly behavior, and never speaking evil about their husbands to others. I never teach them anything about feelings. Feelings are fickle. They come and go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Too many women these days believe that love is based solely upon feelings. When they are no longer \u201cin love\u201d with their husbands because their feelings are gone, they falsely believe they must leave their husbands. This is why up to 80 percent of divorces are initiated by women. As women, we are more emotional. Our hormones do this to us. We can be led astray and deceived easily because of this. We must be on guard in allowing our emotions and feelings to run and ruin our lives. We must learn to be in control of our emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We must definitely learn to control our emotions towards our husbands. In the first year of our marriage, I would have strong and angry outbursts towards my husband. During one argument, I even told him I wondered if I made a mistake in marrying him. Without fail after these outbursts, I would begin my period the next day. We don\u2019t think straight at times. We will turn a mole hill in a mountain by mulling something in our minds that we don\u2019t like about our husband. We need to learn to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ and stop doing this! It\u2019s so destructive in a marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The feelings of love can be attraction, affection, and warmth. These feelings can come and go. They don\u2019t define what love is. God defines it in 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8. When these feelings go, this doesn\u2019t mean you no longer love your husband. If you base love upon your feelings, your love will be shaky and inconsistent. When you base your love upon God\u2019s definition of love, your love will be firm and lasting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some women are more emotional than other women. Some women will feel deeply and others will not. This matters nothing at all. A woman who doesn\u2019t feel deeply can still have a strong and solid marriage by loving her husband through actions and words. She actually probably has an easier time of doing this since she\u2019s not led by her emotions as easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have learned in my older age how deceiving emotions and feelings can be. Yes, I still have them, but I don\u2019t allow them to control my life. I believe this is one reason why so many churches are lukewarm these days. They have built their churches on emotions and feelings rather than upon truth. They sing&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/bereanresearch.org\/popular-christian-music-groups-teaching-heresy\/\">Hillsong, Bethel, and Elevation<\/a>&nbsp;music in order to get the congregation into their feelings and emotions. Some of these songs have some truth in them, but their churches teach false doctrine. When you sing their songs, you\u2019re supporting their churches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many churches don\u2019t teach truth boldly and unashamedly for fear of offending their congregation. They care more about not hurting their feelings rather than teaching truth and growing them up in the ways of the Lord.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We must not be women who are led by our emotions. If you have warm and affectionate feelings towards your husband, that\u2019s great and good, but if you don\u2019t, it doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t love him. Love is actions. It\u2019s doing what is best for your husbands. It\u2019s putting his needs above your own. It\u2019s sacrificial. This is something our culture knows nothing about. How did God love us? He GAVE His only begotten Son that we may have eternal life. God sacrificed for us. Live a sacrificial life of love towards your husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><em><strong>And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.<\/strong><\/em><br>Romans 12:1,2<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>FEELINGS OF LOVE IN A MARRIAGE &nbsp;September 28, 2021&nbsp;&nbsp;Lori Alexander Throughout my many years of mentoring women, I have never once mentored a woman in a difficult marriage to manufacture feelings of love towards her husband. 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