Expect to be outcasts in our society if you believe that women should love and obey their husbands love their children, be sober, chaste, discreet, good, keepers at home, quiet in the churches, and have meek and quiet spirits. Our culture is against all of this. We’re a remnant.’

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Bill Taylor Our culture is doomed. Unless smart women bear children and spend the time needed to raise them to be productive citizens, society will fall.I really wish that older women would teach younger women about men – it would save a lot of grief. They aren’t explaining that men are far more physically driven than women, and they aren’t telling what drives men to marry. http://successful-marriage.blogspot.com/…/what-drives… Women used to say, “Not unless we’re married, and I won’t marry you unless you grow up and get a job.”If a woman says she wants to marry but lets a man have her without marrying her, he feels that she’s a liar. Marriage clearly means nothing to her or she would insist on it instead of just giving herself. If she gives herself to him without marriage, how can he trust her not to give herself to someone else?If he already has her, what would marrying her give him that he doesn’t already have? Men know very little about women; how does a man know whom he should marry? If he can have her without marriage, she isn’t worth marrying. If he can’t, he will marry her if he wants her badly enough.Intimacy without commitment is like icing without the cake. It can be sweet, but it’s going to end up making you sick. A woman sets her price by what she does. If her price is a few dinners or movies, she isn’t worth much. If her price is that he dedicate his life to taking care of her before getting her, she can be a priceless treasure. What you do shouts so loudly that nobody can hear what you say.There are only two possible modes when a girl interacts with a guy: 1) she can be his toy or 2) she can be his treasure. You’ve all seen a little boy play with a truck. He pushes it this way and that, then, when he gets tired of it, he throws it away and grabs another toy. It is very hard on girls when boys get tired of them and throw them away; the book “Unprotected” by Miriam Grossman explains biological reasons why this is so. It is very wrong for a man to toy with a woman.Unfortunately, many men seem to feel that it is perfectly OK to play with a woman and throw her away. Enough women permit this that men can keep doing it for a long time. If he isn’t treating you right, it’s possible that he’s been playing with you and will discard you when he’s ready for another toy. If you tell your grandmother what you say to him and what he says to you, she can tell you. If you can’t do that, you will find out in due time.To defend yourself against this happening again, you can do what my wife did to position herself when I told her I was going to date her, details here:http://successful-marriage.blogspot.com/…/what-my-wife…When I did that, the wheels turned behind her eyes for a few seconds, she gulped, and said, “Yes.” As a woman, she was more interested in being wanted than in wanting. She knew that the time would come when she’d have the flu, she’d be pregnant out to HERE, the other kids would be leaking at both ends, the house would be hip-deep in diapers, and she’d be too sick to do anything about it. If I was really smitten with her, I’d stick around and help her through it instead of running off. That kind of attraction happens quickly and she could see it.She acknowledged my claim on her, but she laid out a few terms and conditions which are described in the article above, specifically that I acknowledge that she was a treasure and not a toy, using those exact words. She also insisted that I agree that the purpose of being together was to decide whether she and I would get married. That took her immediately out of the “toy” category.We’ve been married since 1971. It worked because I wanted her strongly enough to meet her terms and conditions, she wanted to be wanted, and because she really did want to be a treasure for her husband. Being treated as a treasure made her happy, and there is no joy for a man this side of heaven like having a woman like belonging to him.The important point was that she knew enough about men to demand that I treat her as a treasure and marriage candidate from the beginning. She tells young ladies to do that. If a guy walks away from a women who declares that she intends to be God’s treasure for her husband, letting herself fall in love with him would be a BAD idea.There’s an old saying about romance, “It don’t mean a thing if it ain’t got that ZING!” The zing is the man’s desire for one specific woman. If it isn’t there, there’s no way to make it happen, you have to wait for it.

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Admin  · 7h  · https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=741564850672350&id=100044565243793The Transformed Wife8h  · All reactions:1Roger Fulk Sr.12LikeCommentSend1 commentAll commentsBill TaylorOur culture is doomed. Unless smart women bear children and spend the time needed to raise them to be productive citizens, society will fall.I really wish that older women would teach younger women about men – it would save a lot of grief. They aren’t explaining that men are far more physically driven than women, and they aren’t telling what drives men to marry. http://successful-marriage.blogspot.com/…/what-drives… Women used to say, “Not unless we’re married, and I won’t marry you unless you grow up and get a job.”If a woman says she wants to marry but lets a man have her without marrying her, he feels that she’s a liar. Marriage clearly means nothing to her or she would insist on it instead of just giving herself. If she gives herself to him without marriage, how can he trust her not to give herself to someone else?If he already has her, what would marrying her give him that he doesn’t already have? Men know very little about women; how does a man know whom he should marry? If he can have her without marriage, she isn’t worth marrying. If he can’t, he will marry her if he wants her badly enough.Intimacy without commitment is like icing without the cake. It can be sweet, but it’s going to end up making you sick. A woman sets her price by what she does. If her price is a few dinners or movies, she isn’t worth much. If her price is that he dedicate his life to taking care of her before getting her, she can be a priceless treasure. What you do shouts so loudly that nobody can hear what you say.There are only two possible modes when a girl interacts with a guy: 1) she can be his toy or 2) she can be his treasure. You’ve all seen a little boy play with a truck. He pushes it this way and that, then, when he gets tired of it, he throws it away and grabs another toy. It is very hard on girls when boys get tired of them and throw them away; the book “Unprotected” by Miriam Grossman explains biological reasons why this is so. It is very wrong for a man to toy with a woman.Unfortunately, many men seem to feel that it is perfectly OK to play with a woman and throw her away. Enough women permit this that men can keep doing it for a long time. If he isn’t treating you right, it’s possible that he’s been playing with you and will discard you when he’s ready for another toy. If you tell your grandmother what you say to him and what he says to you, she can tell you. If you can’t do that, you will find out in due time.To defend yourself against this happening again, you can do what my wife did to position herself when I told her I was going to date her, details here:http://successful-marriage.blogspot.com/…/what-my-wife…When I did that, the wheels turned behind her eyes for a few seconds, she gulped, and said, “Yes.” As a woman, she was more interested in being wanted than in wanting. She knew that the time would come when she’d have the flu, she’d be pregnant out to HERE, the other kids would be leaking at both ends, the house would be hip-deep in diapers, and she’d be too sick to do anything about it. If I was really smitten with her, I’d stick around and help her through it instead of running off. That kind of attraction happens quickly and she could see it.She acknowledged my claim on her, but she laid out a few terms and conditions which are described in the article above, specifically that I acknowledge that she was a treasure and not a toy, using those exact words. She also insisted that I agree that the purpose of being together was to decide whether she and I would get married. That took her immediately out of the “toy” category.We’ve been married since 1971. It worked because I wanted her strongly enough to meet her terms and conditions, she wanted to be wanted, and because she really did want to be a treasure for her husband. Being treated as a treasure made her happy, and there is no joy for a man this side of heaven like having a woman like belonging to him.The important point was that she knew enough about men to demand that I treat her as a treasure and marriage candidate from the beginning. She tells young ladies to do that. If a guy walks away from a women who declares that she intends to be God’s treasure for her husband, letting herself fall in love with him would be a BAD idea.There’s an old saying about romance, “It don’t mean a thing if it ain’t got that ZING!” The zing is the man’s desire for one specific woman. If it isn’t there, there’s no way to make it happen, you have to wait for it.SUCCESSFUL-MARRIAGE.BLOGSPOT.COMMarriage Under Threat: What Drives Men to Marry?