IF I WERE THE DEVIL, WHAT WOULD I CONVINCE THEM…?
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The Internet is full of sad stories of painful relationships. It’s evident that neither party had a clue what the other sex needed or wanted. Pr. 31:1 speaks of “the words of King Lemuel, the wisdom HIS MOTHER taught him.” Working mothers have neither the time nor the emotional energy to teach their sons how to nourish and cherish their future wives nor to teach their daughters what to require of a man.
Many women are deciding not to have children, partly because they can’t count on a man helping her raise them. At a minimum, a woman MUST be able to explain the necessity of his nourishing and cherishing her that his mother should have taught him, but chose to pursue a career instead.
Does this explanation help?
Marriage is VERY simple. Here are three KEY principles of marriage which shock both sexes. They have strong Bible support, chapter and verse on request.
It is VITAL that husband and wife be VERY KIND to each other. Life is full of frustrations. Men and women are different enough to drive each other crazy. Couples can’t live together very long without WORKING at kindness. As a lost friend told me, “Your spouse is the ONLY person in the world you can never, ever criticize.” How can a men or women be open to an unkind person who hurts them?
A healthy man can make love 3-4 times per day, sometimes 5 or 6. My wife tells women that her husband plans to have her 5 times before breakfast, lunch, dinner, and bed. That’s how she’ll choose to serve him. That shocks most women and makes them angry.
My wife then points out that she’ll want her husband to open his heart to her at least that often. That’s how he chooses to serve her. A girl somehow knows that opening herself to him that much will make her belong to him and that opening himself to her that much will make him belong to her.
It’s hard for a man to open his heart to a woman who’s not his or who criticizes him AT ALL. It’s hard for a woman to open herself to a man who isn’t hers, but if they both belong to each other, they can give each other a taste of the joys of heaven, right here on earth.
Strong connections protect both parties from being tempted to cheat by connecting to others. This one-page note explains how these connections work:
Women share their emotions freely but want physical privacy – she can’t keep giving herself unless her husband restores her emotional energy by opening his heart to her. Men freely share their bodies but want emotional privacy. A man will shut down his heart if his wife criticizes him. They must each learn the other’s way of connecting and fulfill the other’s needs.
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